See ppl any relationship is built on mutual trust.
BDSM is not just beating and giving pain. It takes a real master to build that trust in his sub. And trust dont come in a day.
It takes a lot of communication between the partners. In a country like ours, where there are hardly any decent and trustful munches etc., it mostly is initiated over internet. So its better to understand the persons over internet and if u feel confident, then go ahead and meet them in person in a PUBLIC PLACE. I prefer a beech or a park or a mall. I dont prefer or even suggest a hifi cozy restuarant for a first meet.
But knowing the percent of people who are into this lifestyle, meeting in a public place may not be viable if the person u r interested in is not from ur city or state. Just for this purpose i have bought a new sim and keep it only for the friends in this lifestyle. But as i hv a dual sim hone its ok. My other female friends too hv a sim for this purpose and they just pop that sim when they wana talk to me or other friends to get some suggestions or just hv a free conversation.
It may take months of talks to know a person well and really get close and connect even as a friend. How will BDSM be an exception? BDSM is not a fast food after all... that u go and expect to enjoy it in a few minutes...
If u r really serious, be prepared to spend lots of time in understanding the people u come across - I suggest internet first then over phone and then meet in public place... At least u ma gain a trust worthy friend in this lifestyle if not a partner. If u find ur ideal mate then get the parents to accept and get married... After all life is short and the percent of ppl in BDSM is very low at least in India... and even most of them the so called masters in India are over 40 and they only look for chances to make it polygamy...
BDSM is not just beating and giving pain. It takes a real master to build that trust in his sub. And trust dont come in a day.
It takes a lot of communication between the partners. In a country like ours, where there are hardly any decent and trustful munches etc., it mostly is initiated over internet. So its better to understand the persons over internet and if u feel confident, then go ahead and meet them in person in a PUBLIC PLACE. I prefer a beech or a park or a mall. I dont prefer or even suggest a hifi cozy restuarant for a first meet.
But knowing the percent of people who are into this lifestyle, meeting in a public place may not be viable if the person u r interested in is not from ur city or state. Just for this purpose i have bought a new sim and keep it only for the friends in this lifestyle. But as i hv a dual sim hone its ok. My other female friends too hv a sim for this purpose and they just pop that sim when they wana talk to me or other friends to get some suggestions or just hv a free conversation.
It may take months of talks to know a person well and really get close and connect even as a friend. How will BDSM be an exception? BDSM is not a fast food after all... that u go and expect to enjoy it in a few minutes...
If u r really serious, be prepared to spend lots of time in understanding the people u come across - I suggest internet first then over phone and then meet in public place... At least u ma gain a trust worthy friend in this lifestyle if not a partner. If u find ur ideal mate then get the parents to accept and get married... After all life is short and the percent of ppl in BDSM is very low at least in India... and even most of them the so called masters in India are over 40 and they only look for chances to make it polygamy...
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