Sunday 16 December 2012

Whats BDSM?


BDSM is not about whips, canes, objectification, blood, water sport etc. It is not about abuse, hurt, locking your submissive in cage hearing her screams in agony and shame, it is not constant stupid punishment and inflecting of blind pain with no reason. it is not about using your submissive then throw her away when you board and search for new one , it is not about kinky sex. BDSM is simply way deeper than this. 

It comes from simple fundamental idea of two people who have mutual love on each other and where the love builds into a state of mind where you trust your partner unconditionally that what ever they do wont hurt you instead it will pleasure you to your core...

For a dom / master it is about knowing that your submissive is a human being who has dreams, emotions, heart and limits, it is about building up each other with pleasure, love and joy of knowing you share something that no one else understand as much as you both do, it is about feeling the spark of your Domination meeting her submission and work together perfectly against all odds and problems that life and hatred community throw at you.

It is about the peace you feel inside knowing you don't need to force anything because you already inspired your submissive to love what you do with her and how she is feel cherished and loved in ways no other can offer, it is about trusting yourself and your partner completely with everything you have knowing you put them in a position that they can hurt you but knowing they won't because they gave you the same, it is about knowing that you respect your submissive because she strong person that gave you all their life and being to pleases you. 

BDSM is about all what above and more and once you understand that you will know that this lifestyle offer safe heaven to everyone embracing it where either it is something extreme or light , there is always something for everyone and no matter what your desires are , you will find someone out there that share it with you.

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