-- Again a generic post not necessarily to India but explained with Indian type examples.
Well life is peculiar. Even the 5 fingers in my hand are so different from one another... So no wonder that people are too.
For instance my grandma yells at me/my younger brother when ever we switch the TV channel from a serial to a cricket match. While my dad is OK to watch world cup matches when India plays. I am equally content enough to follow the scores in cricinfo if I had to work that day, while my bro watches at least the highlights of every match (not just India match, even all the group A match or even a Zimbabwe tour of Bangladesh series). [BTW My mom just watches what ever we watch, just as a mute spectator even when her favorite serials are on but get the updates from her friends later that day if we were watching some educational programs or cricket or wwe coz she knows we like them and they are not daily things like the serials].
Similarly, among my friends, me and this one other guy can handle any amount of spiciness in the food (mostly chicken kolapuri or malwani or kadai or handi) when we go for night outs and we add pepper powder to the already spicy gravy and sip into the gravy while having the drink instead of the chicken chicken pieces we sip into gravy as sidedish. While some opt for less spicy dishes while some simply go for boiled eggs or salads.
All I am coming to say from the above two sets of examples is, each and every individual is different and they have different levels of liking or passion for a given thing. The same holds true even wrt physical relationship... (can hear your mind voices saying "FINALLY HE IS starting SOMETHING ABOUT BDSM IN INDIA", chill folks the topic is about how I explain BDSM to a layman)
So different people different level of spiciness in their physical relationships.
Some may like it not at all spicy. Read some books, go in tough, kiss and insert, cum and get off and GTS (go to sleep - <missing C.M. Punk? anyone???>). These are people who just do it to have kids so that the social stigma of being impotent is not associated to them.
Some may like it little spicy, have some dreams, may plan the activity, may start with some candle light dinner, have some special lingerie etc and involve in the activity and enjoy it sensually with or without hardcore activity.
While some, people like me and most of you too, who are regular visitors, like it the most spicy way...
We prefer hard grasp or press or squeeze so that the nail marks is impinged on the partner's skin than just caressing her / him...
we like biting into our partners than kissing them...
We like spanking, hair pulling, slapping, pinching and so many more...
Its so easy to say, we are not just content with her cheeks blushing in the romantic mood but we want her whole body to get pink...
And more importantly she too wants to be taken that way... ONLY THAT WAY... For her, as most subs feel, being taken the way the partner wants is their ultimate satisfaction, leaving the control to Him and being there for him and let him go and encouraging to make him go further, harder and more intense is the pleasure...
And this is what we call BDSM. And the partner who gives up the control is called submissive and the one who takes charge and the rights is called the Dominant partner. And as they say every right comes with a great responsibility... The dominant dont just take her for granted. He has to behave responsibly and read thru her mind which level of intense is pleasure and when to slow down - though he desires to keep rising the bar, every next time.
This is just an intro on BDSM and the two terms referred to the partners involved. There are so many... keep reading more. I am sure you will also realize the eternal or spiritual aspects of it if you and your partner mutually like it.
Well life is peculiar. Even the 5 fingers in my hand are so different from one another... So no wonder that people are too.
For instance my grandma yells at me/my younger brother when ever we switch the TV channel from a serial to a cricket match. While my dad is OK to watch world cup matches when India plays. I am equally content enough to follow the scores in cricinfo if I had to work that day, while my bro watches at least the highlights of every match (not just India match, even all the group A match or even a Zimbabwe tour of Bangladesh series). [BTW My mom just watches what ever we watch, just as a mute spectator even when her favorite serials are on but get the updates from her friends later that day if we were watching some educational programs or cricket or wwe coz she knows we like them and they are not daily things like the serials].
Similarly, among my friends, me and this one other guy can handle any amount of spiciness in the food (mostly chicken kolapuri or malwani or kadai or handi) when we go for night outs and we add pepper powder to the already spicy gravy and sip into the gravy while having the drink instead of the chicken chicken pieces we sip into gravy as sidedish. While some opt for less spicy dishes while some simply go for boiled eggs or salads.
All I am coming to say from the above two sets of examples is, each and every individual is different and they have different levels of liking or passion for a given thing. The same holds true even wrt physical relationship... (can hear your mind voices saying "FINALLY HE IS starting SOMETHING ABOUT BDSM IN INDIA", chill folks the topic is about how I explain BDSM to a layman)
So different people different level of spiciness in their physical relationships.
Some may like it not at all spicy. Read some books, go in tough, kiss and insert, cum and get off and GTS (go to sleep - <missing C.M. Punk? anyone???>). These are people who just do it to have kids so that the social stigma of being impotent is not associated to them.
Some may like it little spicy, have some dreams, may plan the activity, may start with some candle light dinner, have some special lingerie etc and involve in the activity and enjoy it sensually with or without hardcore activity.
While some, people like me and most of you too, who are regular visitors, like it the most spicy way...
We prefer hard grasp or press or squeeze so that the nail marks is impinged on the partner's skin than just caressing her / him...
we like biting into our partners than kissing them...
We like spanking, hair pulling, slapping, pinching and so many more...
Its so easy to say, we are not just content with her cheeks blushing in the romantic mood but we want her whole body to get pink...
And more importantly she too wants to be taken that way... ONLY THAT WAY... For her, as most subs feel, being taken the way the partner wants is their ultimate satisfaction, leaving the control to Him and being there for him and let him go and encouraging to make him go further, harder and more intense is the pleasure...
And this is what we call BDSM. And the partner who gives up the control is called submissive and the one who takes charge and the rights is called the Dominant partner. And as they say every right comes with a great responsibility... The dominant dont just take her for granted. He has to behave responsibly and read thru her mind which level of intense is pleasure and when to slow down - though he desires to keep rising the bar, every next time.
This is just an intro on BDSM and the two terms referred to the partners involved. There are so many... keep reading more. I am sure you will also realize the eternal or spiritual aspects of it if you and your partner mutually like it.
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