Sunday 21 April 2013

BDSM and the internet - not just an Indian perspective

SO here we go....

Its time to discuss about what is not BDSM....

First of all... BDSM is not just a fantasy that you do in internet....

Its a real lifestyle that people practice... I have met many real life couples in our own India who practice this lifestyle. But the truth we need to accept is that its not about the dress you wear... not about the phone u use... its not about the car or bike u drive... Its about the personal private affairs of that concerned couple...

So u dont get to know it... who is in this lifestyle... they can be ur neighbours, ur close relatives who enjoy this lifestyle when they get the enough privacy... But its like their bedroom affair so they wont come and tell you or they wont post pics in fb or g+ engaging in bondage etc...


But the key is to find a perfect partner... ?

May be or may be not... The question is how will you find one?


As I just mentioned, you dont know who practice it, then how will we know who wants to practice?...


The simple choice is of course create a fb or orkut profile just for your personal life style....


there are 100s of communities and 1000s of members who are part of it... so u can easily find fellow members who are interested in this life style...


But the major problem here is people suddenly jump in to what they call as roleplay.... U dumb asses roleplays are not something u do online.... Its something a couple do it in real life with their partner(s) or at least with some escort...

I would say people who do only online roleplays are the major shame that hinders the growth of the people in this lifestyle.... people who are interested in this having lifestyle (or so they think themselves) only in the internet are just cowards and mostly impotents that can do sex only in chats...



I just simply dont understand, are they aroused by seeing the words being typed than some hot pics or porn?.

Simply put, u can make them masturbate type these words in right order....

"asl dress? bdsm? sub/slave? stupid, slave, randi, sali, dumb, idiot, useless, worthless, bitch, Slap, spank, pinch, hair pull, bite,  s*ck, f*ck"  if ur a dom


and

" **<age>, <location>; some dress, sub/slave, thank you sir, hmmm, uhhhh (the number of m and h and a may varry depending on the so called story or plot considered... ") lol

And this is all they need to masturbate and they call themselves as kinksters or into BDSM... 
But actually these are impotents who cant satisfy a partner in real life hence they masturbate by seeing words....

Instead I choose internet to know fellow kinksters, share thoughts and opinions on this lifestyle... chat to REAL LIFE couples about how they met, how they broke the ice and started the conversation and currently how they manage the family, relatives and the society and what problems they have or thought they might encounter and how they countered or planning to counter them...


At least I made good friends and I am not impotent to do sex in chat nor i masturbate by seeing words... <I do hv over 2 TB porn :p)